Four years ago today
I lost one of my most favourite people in this world.
My grandfather, Carl Grandy.
He and I shared a very special bond that cannot be described in words
and I miss him more and more each day.
There is not a doubt in my mind that both of my girls
would adore him as much as I did.
My grandfather was a wonderful story teller
and Piper, like her mom, never tires of listening to stories.
She would have loved to hear about the
"good ol' days"
of growing up in outport Newfoundland,
About how he chose to hunt muskrats instead of helping to build the new post office,
like most of the other men in town (including his brother).
Not only did he trap a load of muskrats,
but he was also able to trap a silver fox at the same time.
He gave his mother the skins to sell in St. John's,
which ended up making him ten times the wages
of the men working on the post office.
And he had fun doing his job!
Or about working on the big fishing boats out on the Grand Banks.
He and his fishing buddy would take a bucket of baked sweets on board their dory with them
to have for a 'lunch' throughout the day.
They fished alongside Portuguese fishermen
who would take one of their hard bread buns and knock it on the side of their boat
to show my grandfather what they were eating.
My grandfather would laugh in delight as he would tell me
how he would row his boat over to the Portuguese boat
and share his sweet baked goodies.
He also liked to talk about
what a little trouble maker he could be when he was a small boy.
After his cow, Olive, had been milked,
a thick layer of delicious cream would settle on the top of the pail of milk.
He liked to take a straw and poke a hole in the cream
to drink the warm milk from down below.
He always had a mischievous smile on his face when he told this story,
so I can only assume that this was not something his mother allowed.
I could honestly go on and on.
As a little girl,
I can remember laying in bed and asking him to tell me story after story.
As I got older,
I never had to ask.
I just had to be there.
Which I was... as often as I could be.
In the later years,
my Pop taught me how to knit garbage nets
using the same techniques that he used to knit fish nets.
He would start off by asking me if I'd like to have a beer with him.
We'd always end up agreeing to share a beer.
He'd pour half into a glass and keep the other half in the bottle.
Then we would sit in his basement and begin knitting a net.
I won't lie.
We got frustrated with each other quite a few times during those knitting lessons,
due to the fact that Pop was left handed and I'm right handed,
but in the end we were able to figure out that handicap
and knit in the calm pleasure of each other's company.
He would tell story after story,
while drinking beer from both the glass and the bottle.
Most of the beer would be gone before he would notice that he was drinking both halves of the beer.
We both laughed a lot at that.
We laughed at each other a lot.
Even in his last days in the hospital,
when we knew he was dying,
he told stories and we laughed.
One day I told him that when I died,
I wanted him to be the very first person in line to meet me in heaven.
A few days later, in a weak voice, he told me that when he died,
he wanted ME to be there very first person in line to meet him in heaven.
When I explained this back to him and that it would mean that I would have to die first,
he was horrified.
Then we both laughed and laughed and laughed.
He apologized so many times and I just kept laughing.
He's been gone for four years
and he's still making me smile.
Memories are beautiful things for our hearts!
Four years ago today was one of the saddest and loneliest days of my life.
I had not only lost my grandfather,
but one of my very best friends.
I just wish my girls had been able to get to know him.
They will know all about him,
but it's not the same.
They are really missing out.
xo
xo
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Here I am with my Pop when I was around 2 years old.
Do you see any resemblance between myself and my girls?
They're definitely cuter.
I tell my mom all the time that my kids are cuter than hers.
Ha! |
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Ahhh, Poppy Grandy, you made beautiful great-granddaughters. |
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They would have loved you so much! |